Sunday, June 26, 2011

童话破灭

又一次无可奈何,又一个童话破灭。

从开始传出婚变后,几乎每天都有新发展,可媲美连续剧。

昔日是那么恩爱,羡煞旁人,谢霆锋张柏芝这对金童玉女历经风雨洗礼,还以为可以白头偕老。

原来,表面的美好都是假象。

家家有本难念的经,清官难审家庭事,孰是孰非已无法单凭一面之词判断。

公说公有理,婆说婆有理,真相是一道解不开的罗生门。

唯一可以肯定的是这个家庭并非如他们表现出来的这么幸福。

一段婚姻走到尽头,除了令人惋惜,最可怜的就是小孩。

爷爷奶奶离婚,爸爸妈妈也步上后尘,可爱的 Lucas 和 Quintus 长大后,会否对婚姻失去信心?

两个人无法继续下去,分开或许是好事,只是难为了孩子。

从前仿似如此深爱的一对壁人,如今落得这种结果,实在教人唏嘘。

无论认识多久,相恋多久,一旦步入婚姻,就是翻天覆地的转变。

适应的人可以共携白首,不适应的只能斩断长久的感情。

小时候听过读过许多童话故事,强调真爱能够战胜一切。

随着成长,明白到 Happily Ever After 只不过是一种美好的憧憬,并非必然。

爱情对上现实,往往输得一败涂地。

破灭的童话,残酷的现实,多少人还能轻易相信爱情?

4 comments:

  1. The best relationship to have is dating dating and dating. Don't get married. If tired, just change a lover, and keep on dating dating and dating. That's my advise to you. Dating life is the best form, you get all the fun but no responsibilities.

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  2. Haha I agree, but once you start dating, you will be expected to get married. It's some kind of "rule" that hard to avoid :P

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  3. That rule is just pressure given by our parents and friends. Hate the question, " So, when are you getting married ah? Date for x years already"....sigh....

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  4. You are right, although this kind of pressure is annoying, but it has great influence. Unless you don't care at all, however, not easy lor :P

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